IB Maths Exam In May And My Child Is Panicking - What Should We Do?
- Ashleigh Lorimer
- Mar 29
- 3 min read
Facing the IB Maths exam in May can be a stressful time for many students and their families. When your child starts to panic, it can feel overwhelming and leave you wondering how best to support them. This post offers practical advice to help calm nerves, build confidence, and prepare effectively for the exam.

Understand the source of the panic
Before jumping into study plans or strategies, it’s important to understand why your child feels panicked. Common reasons include:
Feeling unprepared or behind in the syllabus
Fear of failing or disappointing expectations
Overwhelm from the volume of material to cover
Anxiety about exam conditions or time pressure
Talk openly with your child to identify their specific worries. This helps you address the root cause rather than just the symptoms.
Create a clear and manageable study plan
A detailed study plan can reduce anxiety by breaking down the preparation into smaller, achievable steps. Help your child:
List all the topics they need to review
Prioritise areas where they feel weakest
Allocate specific times for study sessions, including breaks
Set realistic daily or weekly goals and rewards
Using a calendar or planner can make the plan visible and trackable. This structure helps your child feel more in control and less overwhelmed.
Encourage active learning techniques
Passive reading or watching videos may not be enough to build confidence. Encourage your child to use active learning methods such as:
Solving past IB Maths exam papers under timed conditions
Explaining concepts aloud or teaching them to you
Creating flashcards for formulas and key concepts
Group study sessions with classmates for discussion and problem-solving
Active engagement with the material improves understanding and retention, which can ease exam fears.
Support healthy habits and stress management
Physical and mental well-being play a big role in exam performance. Help your child maintain:
Regular sleep schedule to ensure rest and focus
Balanced meals and hydration for energy
Short breaks during study to avoid burnout
Relaxation techniques like deep breathing or mindfulness exercises
Encourage physical activity, even a short walk, to reduce tension and clear the mind.
Provide emotional support and encouragement
Your child needs to know they are not alone. Show empathy and patience by:
Listening without judgment when they express fears
Celebrating small achievements and progress
Reminding them that one exam does not define their worth
Offering reassurance that you believe in their abilities
Asking your child how you can support them best - you may be surprised!
Sometimes, just knowing someone is there to support them can reduce panic significantly.
Seek additional help if needed
If panic or anxiety becomes overwhelming, consider professional support. Options include:
Talking to the school counsellor or IB coordinator
Hiring a tutor for targeted help in difficult topics
Consulting a mental health professional for anxiety management
Seeking the assistance of an educational expert to assess the need for additional time (this needs to be done quite far in advance of the exam)
Early intervention can prevent stress from escalating!
Practical tips for exam day
Help your child prepare for the exam day itself to reduce last-minute stress:
Pack all necessary materials (charged calculator, pens, water in clear bottle ) the night before
Practice relaxation techniques before and during the exam
Read questions carefully and manage time wisely
Encourage them to stay positive, take deep breaths and focus on doing their best
Book a consultation if you need help with any of this! It can be a daunting time for students and parents, but I am here to help every step of the way.




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